The Difference in Attracting vs. Maintaining a Relationship.
Look, I see people get confused with this all the time.
Attracting a relationship is the thrill, the chase, the newness, the desire to seek compatibility, and the freshness of something exciting.
Then around the three, six-, or twelve-month mark, it fades; it seems not so fun. And it appears ironic, like what happened to this fun, exciting new person? Well, a biological, chemical reaction to this newness and excitement wears off as our minds and hormones balance back out. Because instead of an exciting new habit, there is upkeep on an existing habit…