How to Become “That” Man or Woman

Behind closed doors. In the shadows — lurking deep within you was the desire to be “that” man or woman. You wanted to be considered one of the cool ones. You were either the person that desired to host the party everyone was CRAVING to be invited to, or you were praying you’d be on the invitation list to the RAGING holiday party.

Yet whenever you’d get an invitation to do the “cool” kids thing, you always felt like, meh, this is boring. Then your mind would go into hyper analysis state where you would wonder, is this really what all the hype is about, or are you being gipped? You’d be sitting right next to the guys and ladies who had the fancy cars, the luxury name brand clothing, the houses that appeared to be like mini-mansions. And you would wonder to yourself, hmmm — is this really what it’s all about?

The famous club, the drop-dead flawless-looking people, the so-called successful and ever so seemingly confident crowd. Now you are next to them in this party you always wanted to be invited to, but something is just missing for you. It’s not cutting it. How could this be?

Well, your focus was so obsessed with getting somewhere to feel like you would fit in finally. When in truth, the whole time, you could have just decided and chosen to become the sexy, successful, and confident one. You never needed to be invited to a party…